He told me not to do it

Reported speech: orders, requests, advice

 

‘Tell’ and ‘Ask’ with infinitives

 

We can use ‘tell’ or ‘ask’ with infinitives to report orders or requests:

 

Jim’s mum: Wash your hands! Dinner’s ready!

Jim’s mum: Can you wash your hands? Dinner’s ready!

  • She told him to wash his hands.
  • She asked him to wash his hands.

 

Jim’s mum: Don’t touch that pan – it’s hot!

  • She told him not to touch the pan.
  • She asked him not to touch the pan.

 

The structure here is:

 

tell + someone + (not) to do something

ask + someone + (not) to do something

 

 

‘Ask for something’

 

Jim: Mum, can I have some bread?

Jim’s sister: Could I have a glass of water?

  • Jim asked her for some bread.
  • Jim’s sister asked for a glass of water.

 

The structure here is:

 

ask (someone) for + object

 

 

Other reporting verbs

 

We can also use a lot of other verbs in reported speech. Some of them follow the same pattern:

  • She ordered him to wash his hands.
  • She advised him to wash his hands.
  • She ordered him not to touch the pan.
  • She advised him not to touch the pan.

 

Come on. Eat your vegetables. They’re good for you!

Remember to wash the dishes.

Don’t forget!

  • She persuaded him to eat his vegetables.
  • She reminded him to wash the dishes.
  • She warned him not to forget.

 

Sometimes the pattern is different:

 

OK, Mum.  I’ll wash the dishes.

  • He promised to wash the dishes.

NOT: He promised her to wash the dishes.

 

Why don’t you watch TV?

  • He suggested (that) she should watch TV.
  • He suggested (that) she watch TV.

 

You can also say:

  • He suggested watching TV.

NOT: He suggested her to watch TV.

NOT: He suggested to watch TV.